As a boudoir photographer, I have heard a lot of women say they want to, but are going to wait until they have their dream bodies. I think that is a load of bullshit, excuse my French. You are never going to have your dream body, because they simply don't exist. As a boudoir photographer, I know this better than most. Your body will always have flaws, but those flaws are what make you perfect and stunning, and most importantly, uniquely you.
Hi! I'm Elili. Boudoir photography has been a massive part of my journey, learning to love and appreciate my body. But beyond that, regaining my confidence after being sexually assaulted. I remember how insecure I used to be, and am so grateful that boudoir photography helped me change the way I view my body. That is why I became a boudoir photographer, so I can guide other women through the same journey.
about Elili, the owner & boudoir photographer behind ELi boudoir
a little bit
My BOoking process
what to expect from your ELI boudoir experience
My BOoking process
what to expect from your eli boudoir experience
From the moment you begin your boudoir photoshoot experience, the process will be effortless. My booking process is simple and transparent. Sessions can be reserved directly through my website, where you can select a date that fits into your schedule. During the checkout process you will be able to select from two payment options: a single payment or a payment plan that divides your session fee into three installments.
I offer one primary boudoir photoshoot option: the Bookworm package. Typically, this experience is in a studio, however, it can also take place at the beach or a mountainous location.
As a boudoir photographer, my mine priority is your comfort. I love outdoor photoshoots and think there is something spectacular about connecting with yourself in nature. So, when you book your boudoir experience, you will let me know your preference.
Once your photoshoot is scheduled, you will complete a questionnaire, and I will guide you through pre-session details to make sure you feel prepared and at ease. This is where your nerves settle and excitement begins.
I also offer optional phone consultations. I totally understand wanting to touch base with your boudoir photographer prior to your photoshoot. However, I also have clients who despise phone calls, so I have made them optional.
Your photoshoot
Your photoshoot
It is finally the day you have been waiting for! Your photoshoot will last between 2-2.5 hours. I have found this is the perfect amount of time. It lets us shoot five outfits comfortably, so you never feel rushed and have time to take breaks as necessary. As a boudoir photographer, I never want my clients to feel rushed or stressed. I have all of my clients bring at least 6-8 outfits to their session, so we have options in case something does not fit the way you wanted.
Your session begins with a full professional makeup. Arrive as yourself — leave radiant, and feeling absolutely stunning from the very first frame. Make sure you arrive with your hair how you like it styled, ready to be down in its full glory
As your boudoir photographer, I will guide you through poses that make you look phenomenal, helping you make minor adjustments throughout the whole experience. You will never have to wonder what to do with your hands or what expression to make.
Prior to your photoshoot itself, I will provide styling guidance so that you walk into your photoshoot with clothing choices that make you feel confident, beautiful, and powerful. As your boudoir photographer, I want you to feel prepared walking into your boudoir experience.
Your reveal session
Your reveal session
Approximately one week after your photoshoot, we will reconvene for your reveal—the most exciting moment of the whole process where you get to see your fabulous photographs. Every client I have worked with is always in disbelief that these photos are of themselves. They are THAT transformative. In this private setting, you will get to view your soft proofs. As a boudoir photographer, these are the most impactful moments for me. They invigorate me. It is in an honor to be a boudoir photographer and have a profession where my work makes other women feel confident and beautiful. These photos have base edits, but selected photographs will undergo another round of retouching.
Your reveal will go at your pace. If you need an extra moment to take in your photos, take it. You will narrow down the photographs that resonate with you the most and discuss different artwork that will preserve them meaningfully.
Your initial investment comes with two 5x7 fine art prints which can be used as a $100 print credit towards an heirloom album, canvas wall art, or metal wall art prints. Whether you choose delicate prints or a handcrafted album, every option will honor your photographs as art.
The reveal and ordering session is your moment. Its punch lies in connecting with yourself, revealing your intrinsic radiance, and fueling your greater self-assurance.
what to expect from your eli boudoir experience
My BOoking process
my booking process
From the moment you begin your boudoir photoshoot experience, the process will be effortless. My booking process is simple and transparent. Sessions can be reserved directly through my website, where you can select a date that fits into your schedule. During the checkout process you will be able to select from two payment options: a single payment or a payment plan that divides your session fee into three installments.
I offer one primary boudoir photoshoot option: the Bookworm package. Typically, this experience is in a studio, however, it can also take place at the beach or a mountainous location.
As a boudoir photographer, my mine priority is your comfort. I love outdoor photoshoots and think there is something spectacular about connecting with yourself in nature. So, when you book your boudoir experience, you will let me know your preference.
Once your photoshoot is scheduled, you will complete a questionnaire, and I will guide you through pre-session details to make sure you feel prepared and at ease. This is where your nerves settle and excitement begins.
I also offer optional phone consultations. I totally understand wanting to touch base with your boudoir photographer prior to your photoshoot. However, I also have clients who despise phone calls, so I have made them optional.
your photoshoot
your photoshoot
It is finally the day you have been waiting for! Your photoshoot will last between 2-2.5 hours. I have found this is the perfect amount of time. It lets us shoot five outfits comfortably, so you never feel rushed and have time to take breaks as necessary. As a boudoir photographer, I never want my clients to feel rushed or stressed. I have all of my clients bring at least 6-8 outfits to their session, so we have options in case something does not fit the way you wanted.
Your session begins with a full professional makeup. Arrive as yourself — leave radiant, and feeling absolutely stunning from the very first frame. Make sure you arrive with your hair how you like it styled, ready to be down in its full glory
As your boudoir photographer, I will guide you through poses that make you look phenomenal, helping you make minor adjustments throughout the whole experience. You will never have to wonder what to do with your hands or what expression to make.
Prior to your photoshoot itself, I will provide styling guidance so that you walk into your photoshoot with clothing choices that make you feel confident, beautiful, and powerful. As your boudoir photographer, I want you to feel prepared walking into your boudoir experience.
your reveal session
your reveal session
Approximately one week after your photoshoot, we will reconvene for your reveal—the most exciting moment of the whole process where you get to see your fabulous photographs. Every client I have worked with is always in disbelief that these photos are of themselves. They are THAT transformative. In this private setting, you will get to view your soft proofs. As a boudoir photographer, these are the most impactful moments for me. They invigorate me. It is in an honor to be a boudoir photographer and have a profession where my work makes other women feel confident and beautiful. These photos have base edits, but selected photographs will undergo another round of retouching.
Your reveal will go at your pace. If you need an extra moment to take in your photos, take it. You will narrow down the photographs that resonate with you the most and discuss different artwork that will preserve them meaningfully.
Your initial investment comes with two 5x7 fine art prints which can be used as a $100 print credit towards an heirloom album, canvas wall art, or metal wall art prints. Whether you choose delicate prints or a handcrafted album, every option will honor your photographs as art.
The reveal and ordering session is your moment. Its punch lies in connecting with yourself, revealing your intrinsic radiance, and fueling your greater self-assurance.
6. Adventures of any kind. I love a random day filled with mini adventures.
7. Flowers. I love the smell of flowers and think they are the most. beautiful thing.
8. Seasons. I love seeing the seasons change. Something i miss a lot living in California.
9. Documentaries - I love true crime, and any documentary where I am learning something new
10. Crafts - I love painting (acrylics are my favorite medium), embroidering, crocheting, and drawing.
11. Because I could not stop at ten, here is an eleventh. Traveling. I love seeing new places, experiencing new cultures and getting to see the wonders of the world. As a boudoir photographer, exploring the world inspires me
1. Food - I love trying new cuisines and gorging out on my favorites
2. Desserts - to name the top few, ice cream, pastries, and cookies.
3. Animals, but especially PUPPIES. If I could live on a farm with 10 puppies I would.
4. I love parks. There is something so serene about sitting quietly in a park enjoying nature.
5. The sound of waves. If I had to choose one sound to play on repeat it would be this one.
As a boudoir photographer, here are 10 Things I love
As a boudoir photographer, I truly think there are zero valid reasons not to do a photoshoot. But let me pin point some of the most common reasons I hear as a boudoir photographer!
1. You want to feel confident in your body just as it is.
2. You want to embrace your imperfections (yes, we all have them)
3. You ready to embrace and build your confidence
4. You have struggled with your self-image in the past
5. You want to have fun and celebrate your body
What makes boudoir right for you?
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I only say this because your time is valuable and should not be wasted on subpar experiences. Based on my experience as a boudoir photographer, if you are not choosing the right boudoir photographer (for yourself), your experience will not be nearly as enjoyable.
Especially for something as personal as boudoir, choose the boudoir photographer who's work you LOVE and who you feel comfortable with. If they make you feel uncomfortable or awkward with your clothes on, you definitely won't feel relaxed with them off.
Boudoir is an investment into yourself, your confidence, and your self love, and it is a financial investment. In my opinion, there is nothing is more valuable to invest in than your confidence and self-worth.
Confidence cannot be bought, but a boudoir photoshoot can transform your confidence from nearly nonexistent to powerful goddess momentarily. Take it from me, someone who had that experience.
Choose the right boudoir photographer
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Testimonial
I myself am not a person that is super confident about my body, I usually cover it up with the clothes I wear and I never really thought I would do boudoir photography. I was pretty uncomfortable with the idea, to be honest. One day, I just decided why not do it. And I am very very happy I did. I have a whole new appreciation for my body now. I actually felt a lot more confident about strutting around with all my curves and imperfections after the shoot with Elili.
I had an incredible experience with Elili and would totally work with her again. She was the perfect balance between professional and also playful but also supportive and incredibly warm.
I myself am not a person that is super confident about my body, I usually cover it up with the clothes I wear and I never really thought I would do Boudoir photography. I was pretty uncomfortable with the idea, to be honest. One day, I just decided why not do it. And I am very very happy I did. I have a whole new appreciation for my body now. I actually felt a lot more confident about strutting around with all my curves and imperfections after the shoot with Elili.
I had an incredible experience with Elili and would totally work with her again. She was the perfect balance between professional and also playful but also supportive and incredibly warm.
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The Ultimate Lingerie Guide from a Los Angeles Boudoir Photographer
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Shopping for the perfect sexy plus size lingerie should not feel stressful or like you have to compromise. As a boudoir photographer, after photographing tons of body-positive boudoir photoshoots in Los Angeles, one fact has become apparent: unfortunately, the majority of lingerie brands are not size inclusive and only offer up to a size 16, which by the way is the average woman’s clothing size. Lingerie can fit so many different purposes – it can be practical, sensual, bold, edgy, or soft. This plus size lingerie guide helps you find lingerie pieces that instill confidence and help you show off your beautiful bodies. You deserve pieces that make you feel as powerful as possible.
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If you are in the process of finding the perfect Los Angeles boudoir photographer for yourself, there are some essential questions you should ask them first. So, as a boudoir photographer in Los Angeles, here are the top 11 questions you should ask. This blog post addresses topics ranging from why I became a boudoir photographer to how I handle clients who are nervous and worried about their insecurities during their photoshoot to how I direct my clients to pose during their boudoir photoshoot. Find out the best questions to ask me or your future boudoir photographer and reach out to me if you have any lingering questions!
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What is boudoir? Why is boudoir photography an empowering experience
READ the blog post
If you are reading this post and are considering doing a Boudoir session, I hope you will. Boudoir is one of the most empowering things we as women can do. One of the most intimidating aspects of Boudoir is what to wear to your boudoir session. Lingerie is an obvious choice, but if you don’t feel comfortable wearing lingerie, there are so many other options for your boudoir session. In this blog post I will give you ten different boudoir outfits ideas for your Boudoir photoshoot. As a boudoir photographer, I have the inside scoop. This blog post covers lingerie stores in the greater Los Angeles area, online, and most importantly, this blog post covers ten of the best boudoir outfits you can wear to your photoshoot.
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