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Yes, every woman deserves a birthday photoshoot, and you don’t have to be a certain age, size, or stage of life to do one. A birthday photoshoot is a beautiful way to celebrate who you are right now, document the woman you’ve become, and to truly see yourself. Your session doesn’t have to follow any […]

Finding a meaningful wedding gift for a bride can be challenging for bridesmaids, as traditional gifts often feel impersonal. A unique option is a boudoir session, which offers the bride a personal experience focused on self-celebration and confidence-building. This gift allows her to step away from wedding planning and enjoy a memorable day dedicated to her. The sharing of photographs afterward can serve as a cherished keepsake, ensuring the gift is remembered long after the wedding day.

Preparing for a boudoir photoshoot can be daunting, especially regarding wardrobe choices. The key is to focus on fit rather than size, as clothing that fits well enhances confidence and comfort. Clients are advised to select lingerie that reflects their personal style and to avoid buying smaller sizes for motivation. It’s important to bring meaningful pieces and outfits that showcase, not conceal, the body. Ultimately, the current version of oneself is worth photographing, and having multiple outfit options can ease the process during the shoot.

Postpartum boudoir photography can help new mothers reconnect with their bodies after the profound changes of pregnancy. Many women express feelings of disconnection and struggle with body image. Boudoir offers a creative experience to celebrate these changes, allowing women to see themselves anew. It’s not about reverting to a pre-pregnancy state but embracing their current selves. This personalized experience encourages self-recognition, fosters confidence, and supports emotional well-being, while acknowledging that seeking professional help is also normal

If you have been thinking about booking a boudoir session but keep getting stuck on the same worry, “I don’t know how to pose,” I want you to know something before you read another word: you are not supposed to know how to pose. That is my job. Almost every single woman who walks into […]

As a Los Angeles boudoir photographer, I spend a lot of my time telling women to slow down and be kinder to themselves. A spa day is one of the simplest ways to do that. LA has a reputation for traffic and packed calendars, but it also has some of the best spas in California […]

No, you do not need to lose weight before your boudoir shoot. It’s one of the most common questions I hear, and my answer never changes: being photographed beautifully is not a reward you earn by shrinking your body. It’s something you deserve right now, exactly as you are. So if you’ve been asking yourself, […]

Stop waiting to feel beautiful before your body changes. I hear the same sentence almost every week. Some version of: I want to book, but I want to lose fifteen pounds first. Or tone up first. Or fit back into a certain size. Or fix the one part of my body I have hated since […]

The best places to buy bridal lingerie for your boudoir session range from budget-friendly brands like Boux Avenue and Pour Moi to mid-range favorites like Thistle & Spire, For Love & Lemons, Lounge, and Pepper, all the way up to luxury houses like Fleur du Mal, Honey Birdette, and Agent Provocateur, plus in-person boutiques and […]

The best boudoir lingerie colors for every skin tone are black, off-white, red, and jewel tones like emerald green and rich purple, because these four photograph beautifully on nearly everyone. From there, you fine-tune to your own undertones: warm undertones glow in golds, corals, and deep reds, cool undertones come alive in emerald, lavender, and icy blue, and neutral undertones can wear almost anything. After years of styling clients for their sessions, I’ve learned that the “right” color is simply the one that makes you the focus of the photo instead of the fabric. Below, I’ll walk you through exactly how to choose yours, from undertones and skin depth to mood, fabric, and the mistakes I see most often.
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The fundamentals
This is by far the most common question I am asked as a boudoir photographer. It is also the question that comes with the most loaded assumptions. If you have started considering doing a boudoir photoshoot but are unsure of if it is "for you", start here!
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Preparation
Deciding what outfits to bring to your boudoir photoshoot can be stressful. At ELI Boudoir, all of my clients get five looks, which means you get plenty of variety. This blog post provides a vast array of boudoir outfit ideas, so you find five outfits that make you exude confidence.
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Preparation
Finding lingerie can be difficult, whether or not you are looking for pieces to wear to your boudoir photoshoot. In this blog post, I will share over 40 lingerie companies and share insider secrets about what styles of lingerie photograph you should select for your boudoir photoshoot.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Boudoir can be an intimidating experience, even though it shouldn’t be (in my totally unbiased opinion). In this blog post, I dive into eleven important questions you can ask your boudoir photographer prior to booking your boudoir experience.
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Myth busting
There are so many misnomers that float around boudoir and who it is meant for and the experience as a whole. In this blog post, I break these down. Boudoir is truly for all women ready to invest in themselves and their confidence
Required Reading
Not the newest posts — the most important ones. Individaually chosen for anyone who is curious, nervous, excited, or just starting to consider a boudoir shoot.
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