What Should You Wear to Your Boudoir Session?

If you are reading this post and are considering doing a boudoir session, I truly hope you will. Boudoir is one of the most empowering things we as women can do. One of the most intimidating aspects of Boudoir is what to wear to your boudoir session. Lingerie is an obvious choice, but if you don’t feel comfortable wearing lingerie, there are so many other options for your boudoir session. In this blog post I will give you ten different boudoir outfits for your session.

If your first thought is “I am not confident enough to do Boudoir” that is a load of bullshit (excuse my language), but truly no one thinks they’re natural in-front of the camera and confident enough, but the goal of a Boudoir session is to make you feel POWERFUL, and CONFIDENT, and SEXY. My goal as your photographer, is to make you see your inner and outer beauty and for you to leave our session with a pep in your step. If you are thinking about booking a session with me, click right here and you’ll get to my inquiry form. I can’t wait to get to know you better and to work with you.

Now as for what to wear to your session, the options are endless, but here is a list of my top 10 boudoir outfits (in no particular order) and a little bit about why I love them. At the end of this blog post, I will give you a few local boutiques in Los Angeles to search for lingerie at! And if you don’t want to shop in-person, there is a separate list for online lingerie stores to look at!

Before we jump into my list, remember that the MOST important factor is your comfort. If you feel confident in what you are wearing it will show through in your session, so don’t choose an outfit just because it is meant to be sexier!

So let’s get into it: What to wear to your Boudoir Session. Here are my top 10!

Boudoir Outfit: Lingerie

Lingerie is probably the most common outfit worn to Boudoir sessions, but I bet you can’t name all the different types of lingerie. Personally, my head immediately goes to teddies and 3-piece sets, which are incredibly sexy, but here are a few other types for you to think about:

• Slips
• Nightgowns
• Chemises
• Bralettes & Camis
• Corsets & Bustiers
• Kimonos

Bras

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Most important: make sure that you get fitted and buy the right sized bras, it makes a world of difference. If you’re unsure of your exact size, there are online calculators such as the A Bra That Fits Calculator or you can go into most local department stores and ask someone to help!

If you want to add some flare to your bra choice, get one that has embroidery, lace work, or cutouts!

There is no right or wrong style of bra to wear. Some popular styles are balconettes, demi, push-up, racerbacks, and bralettes (which can range from lacy to Calvin Klein triangle bralettes)

Panties

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Yet again there are SO many different styles of panties and my recommendation is to go with what makes you feel sexy. I do recommend high-waisted panties; these tend to accentuate your curves.

Thongs and g-strings can be a good choice if you want to highlight the curve of your ass. These pair really well with an oversized shirt, cardigan, button-down, and really anything!

To name a few popular styles:

• Thongs
• G-strings
• Cheeky
• Bikini

Garter Belts:

A garter belt can spice up any outfit you wear to a boudoir session. Typically, a garter belt is attached to thigh high stockings, but my favorite look is when it is attached to nothing!

Boudoir Outfit: Oversized Clothing + Sexy Panties

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For this one, I would choose a high-waisted panty and/or something lacy. My favorite element of oversized clothing is how it seduces the eye, draws your focus to what could be under the clothing and makes you want to see more. If you’re doing your session as a gift for a partner, you could even bring one of their articles of clothing, I guarantee they would never forget about that sweatshirt, shirt, jacket, or whatever it was.

Boudoir Outfit: Button-down Shirt and Panties

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If I had to choose a favorite, this might take my money. Button-downs are inherently sexy and flirty. Let me paint a scene for you: you’re at your session wearing a white button-down and a thong. At the start, we are taking photographs from the back, so you can see your gorgeous hair, but your body and ass is concealed by your shirt. Then we start playing around with it, so you get glimpses of your ass, teasing your eye, and then we move to photographing so we can see your beautiful body and face. And now you get glimpses of your mid-drift, and your boobs and the sexy panties that you are wearing. This is an amazing way to start a session and work your way up to a lingerie set or really any other outfit choice!

Now button-down shirts can be made from various materials and if you choose a traditional white shirt, there are infinite styles. This is another instance where I tell you to go with what makes you feel yourself and sexy!

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I do recommend you choose a solid-colored button-down. Patterns like stripes tend not to photograph as well.

Boudoir Outfit: Jeans + No-shirt or a Bralette

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Jeans are the pants equivalent of an oversized sweatshirt with lacy panties.

One recommendation I have is to wear jeans that are not super restrictive, you want to still be able to move around and feel comfortable. If you choose a pair that is tight on your waist, it is going to get uncomfortable super quickly.

Boudoir Outfit: A Robe

Robes are typically sheer, lacy and cinch in the middle, allowing your figure to show through. You can either wear lingerie underneath or be completely nude. If your robe is lacy, I would recommend wearing a solid color rather than embellished lingerie.

Boudoir Outfit: A Jacket/Cardigan and Panties

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I am personally obsessed with the look of a jacket and lingerie underneath peeking out. This look can be really effective with a jacket, a cozy winter cardigan, or a cropped sweater.

If you are feeling anxious about your session, having the jacket will give you something to do with your hands, so at the beginning of your session you feel less awkward!

Boudoir Outfit: A Blazer

Business on the outside, and party underneath. I personally am obsessed with the juxtaposition the blazer provides – lingerie is a thousand percent flirty, but the blazer provides an element of mystery, which masterfully makes it even sexier.

If you are feeling really nervous about your boudoir session, it will help you stop thinking about what to do with your hands.

Boudoir Outfit: Nothing at All

When in doubt, go completely nude. I am ALL for embracing your body, falling in-love with stretch marks, and any “blemishes”. Your body is beautiful and there is nothing wrong with celebrating it and wanting photographs that make you fall further in-love with your body. I love working with a simple white sheet and a nude client, the white sheet creates a little bit of mystery!

Boudoir Outfit: Heels or Cowboy Boots + Panties or Naked

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Whether or not you wear some sexy underwear or are entirely naked with your stilettos is entirely up to you. Even though you aren’t doing a strip-dance, it has the same feel as the finale. And yes, even though they are a lot less comfortable, I do recommend stilettos. Besides being ridiculously hot, they are going to make your legs look a million miles long.

Boudoir Outfit: Bodysuits

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A bodysuit can be a slightly more reserved option, but still accentuates ALL of your curves. Another perk to lots of bodysuits is that they can be extremely comfortable. Plus, there are so many different flavors. Now, I included teddies in my lingerie section, but they are worth the double mention! Lacy bodysuits and bodysuits with cutouts are probably my personal all-time favorite! Truly name a more diverse type of lingerie that can make ANYBODY feel just as stunning as you truly are…

You might be asking, well Elili, what is the difference between a bodysuit and a teddy and honestly, they are often interchanged. But typically, a bodysuit is worn with jeans and is not as “sexy” as in is not typically as revealing.

If you want to spice up your bodysuit, try pairing it with some thigh highs or heels!

Boudoir Outfit: A Crop Top and High-Waisted Panties

Crop tops are another outfit choice that I would rate a 7/10 on the scandalous scale. How raunchy they are, depends entirely on design – finding a low-cut, plunging neckline revealing cleavage or with cutouts can up the ante! Imagine a crop top that reveals some under-boob and shows off your mid-drift especially with those high-waisted panties.

A Bonus Boudoir Outfit: Fun and Sexy Shoes

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You can add some sexy shoes to ANY of these options and it will add some flare. Stilettos, Knee-high heeled boots, Heeled Platforms, Strappy Heels. The right pair of shoes has the power to transform any outfit you choose. But is not necessary, going entirely shoe-less is also sexy and if you want some with your SPICY shoes, but not all that is always an option.

My Top 5:

1. Moxy Intimates: founded by female designers, Moxy aims to allow women to find news ways to express themselves and fall further in-love with themselves through their lingerie. They have mastered making lingerie both affordable and luxurious.
2. Hello LA Girl: A Los Angeles based fashion company that uses quality fabrics and materials to create gorgeous lingerie at an affordable cost. Their motto is “More Love, More Beauty,” and I could not agree more.
3. Mari Moth: Their lingerie is stunning. Every time I look at their website I want to buy it all. Their goal is to make women feel sexy and alluring. Their lingerie collections are always limited edition, making them eve more special!
4. For Love and Lemons: They are 100% woman led small online boutique with intricate embroidery work. I am obsessed with their teddies.
5. Adore ME (they have a store in Long Beach): an affordable luxury lingerie boutique with an array of sizes (A-I cups and 30-46 bands).

Stores in Los Angeles to buy your lingerie:

• The Lace Lounge: A Black- and woman-owned lingerie boutique in Los Angeles, specializing in bra fitting.
• Le Boudoir Los Angeles: A woman-owned lingerie and accessories boutique with a carefully curated selection located in Echo Park, Los Angeles.
• Hustler Hollywood: A sex store nestled in West Hollywood with a wide selection ranging from luxury lingerie to sex toys.
• Ilusíon: A lingerie boutique in Los Angeles dedicated to designing affordable and beautiful luxury lingerie that inspires women to define their own version of sexuality and confidence.
• Gray Fashion: A family-owned, small-business in Los Angeles that has edgy, exclusive designs and options ranging from shoes to lingerie.

Online Stores to start your lingerie search at:

• Bluebella: Beautiful lingerie with sheer detailing. They firmly believe that lingerie can create a confidence boost and everyone has their own style.
• Journelle: A designer lingerie brand with beautiful lace work. You can find anything ranging from period panties to gorgeous three piece sets.
• Agent Provocateur (they have a store in West Hollywood): A luxury, sensual lingerie boutique with intricate designs.
• Honey Birdette: Designs ranging from delicate lace to their S&M collection, Honey Birdette strives for playfulness, sensuality, and flirtiness in their boutiques and lingerie. Lucky for you, they have a store in Century City.